STATE OF AFFAIRS Paperback – 9 October 2018

Good book. Gives a more open perspective on what infidelity truly is in all it's forms. Though I don't agree with all the points in the book but nevertheless it's a great guide on picking tips on how to keep your relationship thriving in the long term.

This is the most insightful book, ever, about affairs and how we can heal from them. It offers excellent strategies but it also offers much needed explanations of the human psyche.

Esther Perel uses the combination of just the right words with interesting case studies and the latest research which is eye opening. It's a gem of a book and it definitely requires more than one reading.

Uma luz jogada sobre um mundo que corre paralelo com o que consideramos “normal”

Very interesting perspective on infidelity from both sides of the fence. Would recommend reading this book regardless of your relationship status.

Me encanta como escribe Esther, es tan interesante e inteligente y tan variada. Es como leer y pensar en distintos idiomas al mismo tiempo. La temática del libro es muy actual y se aborda de excelente manera. Soy fan.

Again, Esther Perel takes us on a journey to self-discovery. It's an invitation to question our definition of monogamy, infidelity. The stories shared in this book give a large spectrum of perspectives that one can relate to one way or another. One thing for sure, we're living a society shift and this book helps seeing the good outcome that chaos can bring.

Being an anxious type and over-romantisizing relationship expectations almost made me give up on my healthy relationship.Esther showed me that all the problems we have is very common and normal and guided me back on earth to deal with our problems rationally with lots of patience.“You can build love with anybody, but you cannot build a life with anybody.”Beautifully said.