How to Give a Spanking: How to Spank your Child with Love & Punishment for Kids

This is a great and very balanced book. As for the negative reviews, I'd love to see how all the non-spanking parents discipline and how effective their method is. I've been a child educator for over a decade and I can tell you with certainty that "time-out" or taking away a toy or television is completely unaffective. Children need to be taught rules and obedience from a young age and consistently onward or it will be an uphill battle in their teens. Kids given time out just go into their imagination and continue to play in their mind. There is no lesson learned from taking away a TV show. Another reviewer said that as adults we don't get hit for doing something wrong at work... I need to laugh at that person's logic. Because as adults, we have far greater punishments than a spanking for not following the rules and respecting authority. It's called prison. It's called losing your job. Teaching discipline and respect starts early and if you are a parent yourself, you know that kids do not learn by simply being told no. It takes them only seconds to forget and start displaying bad behavior again. I'd bet money that all the one star reviewers either do not have children or have deviants as teenagers and young adults. Pretty sure we call them millennials. Entitled members of Society who are now frighteningly raising their own children who do not respect authority.All that aside my children, four to be exact, always received love and affection and their good behavior was rewarded and reinforced. But if they had to be told no more than once, they got the "stick". Today they are loving, caring, fun and respectful members of society. They never had a bruise or mental damage and they will tell you so. They will also tell you that they will raise their kids the way they themselves were raised. Just as my mother did and my grandmother before here. Just because its 2019 doesn't mean that some tried and true methods should be tossed out. I've never met a person who is mentally damaged from gentle discipline that is done in love.

A simple, concise book with useful tips on how to use spanking effectively. Can be used by those with and without religious views on child-rearing.

Ideal for parents like me. Spanking children is really hard for me as well as for kids. This book gives me so much inputs on how to properly spank, punish, disciple kids in a way that it is a mean of showing love. This book guides me in explaining and making them realized the value of everything. Great book for parents.

Nothing about this is "loving". What an absolute joke. As a child who was "spanked in love" (ie. BEATEN!) and then prayed with afterward to be a better kid, I absolutely want to vomit over CRAP like this. I was terrified of my parents. Terrified to do anything wrong it make any mistakes. I lived in fear, became an obsessive compulsive perfectionist. As a young adult, I had huge rage issues, as did my brothers. I have PTSD. I used to get triggered and have trauma responses when I see or hear children being "spanked" (ie. BEATEN!). Its still hard. I have to walk away and using calming techniques. If I made a mistake at work, I would start to panic and my eyes would well with tears. PTSD trauma response. It's taken YEARS of therapy to undo all the damage that "spanking" (ie. BEATING) did to me.For the love of God and all that is holy, STOP BEATING CHILDREN!

The idea of the book is different. All books are currently against spanking, they encourage positive discipline without even yelling. However, I find it not that bad, since it gives limited situations where spanking can be used and how to do it the right way. Also, the book is too short.

Clear, practical instruction on disciplining children. The book gives simple, practical tools for parents to use and lays out the how to of spanking.

More of a pamphlet then a book.

Hey Alyson.....I have also written a book about spanking children. (Jacob gets A Spanking) ..so in short ...I think that your book is great. ...keep pushing! Lets chat one day!

Ich gestehe, ich habe es gekauft, da ich ein Spanko bin, also wer der auf Spanking steht, ich wollte es als "Wissensquelle" für meine Fantasien haben, naja es war ein Fehlkauf.Warum?zu 80% schreibt die Autorin darüber wie wichtig sie Erziehung findet und erklärt alles mögliche, wie man ein gutes Elternteil ist.Die "how to give a spanking" stelle waren vielleicht 2 Seiten von den... öhm... 30? Seiten.Das "Buch" ist wirklich nur ein Putziger kleiner Flyer, dünner als eine Micky Maus Zeitschrift und auch deutlich kleiner.Ich habe ein paar Bilder hinzugefügt, das Ihr mal die Größe seht, im Vergleich zu einem LTB.Außerdem die 2 "Seiten" (doppelseiten) die ich als einzige relevante Stelle fand.Ich hoffe das ich die hier zeigen darf.

We live in an age where 'two legs bad, four legs good' has become a reality. It is hard now to have a sensible debate about anything without hysterical screams being used to shout down any view that does not meet the accepted norm. Corporal punishment (spanking) is abuse and that is it. If anyone tries to suggest that it may have a value the word 'abuse' or 'abuser' is simply shouted over and over again until the speaker is silenced. We see that attitude over and over again. Tim Farron, leader of the Lib-Dems, is a Christian. As leader of the Lib-Dems he has said unequivocally that the party supports the rights of the LGBTG community. However, he is a Christian so it is demanded that he say whether he thinks homosexuality a sin or not. He refuses and he is screamed at hysterically to apologise. We are told it is 'unacceptable' that he won't say. Thus his rights to a private life, to have religious views and keep them private are denied. That is why I am astonished that the author has had the courage to write this book. It doesn't matter whether you agree or not a considered view that CP or spanking has a place has been put forward and we should all know what it is if only to challenge it intelligently. Well written, intelligent and well argued whether you agree or not.