Prenups for Lovers: A Romantic Guide to Prenuptial Agreements Paperback – February 6, 2001

This book supports a lot of conversations that prevents a lot of arguments. My wife and I have been married for nearly 10 years, and I credit this book for clearing the air on a lot of fears we each brought to the relationship. I buy another copy whenever anyone announces their marriage. This is a book for preventing divorce, not preparing for it!

For those of you that get married this book is for you. It states how to remain on amiable terms when drafting a document such as this. My personal opinion is that a man and woman should remain friends and not fight over possessions. A marriage is based on love not materialism or gold digging.

My son-in-law's lawyer produced a prenup that was almost word for word the same as this book. It helps on the process and the legalese.

before you get married. If you each know what's expected prior to committing, it takes some of the stress out of the relationship. I know one couple who put in their PN who is responsible for dishes and taking out the trash. You do not have to be mega-wealthy either. It's the kindest thing you can do for yourself and each other.

Excellent book for all ages - the younger the better. Prenuptial agreements are the utmost form of love! This book showcases that - no matter divorce or death or debt. Must read!

This book is an absolute must buy for anyone planning on getting married. A prenup benefits both parties, regardless of their "pre-wedding" situation. Stay alert ... stay alive!!!

This reviewer's first reaction to this reference book was: "I'm married almost a quarter of a century, why would I bother to read a non-fiction centering on prenuptial agreements?" I went in for a taste and completed PRENUPS FOR LOVERS. After reading Arlene G. Dublin's guidebook, I realized that I not only learned a lot, but changed my mind about prenups. This tome should be must reading for anyone (either gender) thinking of getting married. Ms. Dublin debunks the non-romanticism that makes the prenup seem more like a cold business contract by emphasizing the importance of honest discussions on finances, future goals, and the consideration that each partner expects from the marriage. There are numerous tips with an index that helps the user focus on a particular topic and an easy to use sample prenup. The bottom line is that this helpful book does more than just coldly protect assets, which is important. It reminds couples that communication is the key to keeping a marriage from ending with a divorce decree and that should start before the "I Do".Harriet Klausner

Excellent, readable treatment of a touchy subject. Practical guide that couples should read, especially if they art somewhat intimidated by the term, let alone the process.